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Ramazan Kareem
By Dr.
Muhammad Hafizullah
“How can I not fast?” responded
my nearly hundred years old paternal aunt, while holding my
hand. I was asked to see her as she was unwell with fever and
frequency of motions. She was sleeping on her side and woke up
as I walked in. She had difficult time finding her glasses and
her face melt into an ‘ear to ear’ smile on recognising me. Her
lips were parched and tongue dry and I could ‘feel’ her fever.
Weak and emaciated in body, she seemed psychologically composed
and mentally very strong. All my arguments on not to fast, even
temporarily, failed to convince her. “I have to fast and I will
fast- come what may,” she announced as I was departing.
“You are having frequent
episodes of angina and need to take the drugs regularly, so may
I very humbly suggest that you forgo fasting for a few days till
you are more stable,” I offered my medical advice. “Doctor, this
is not a question of choice for me, even if I am dying I will
not break my fast,” said an octogenarian determined Baba from
Charsadda while emphasising every word. The number of patients
visiting doctors surges in the period before Ramazan. Most have
a question to ask, “Can I fast?” This undoubtedly lays high
responsibility on us as clinicians for which we never had any
dedicated training. Most of us approach it based on our ‘hunch’.
Over the years we have learnt some tricks of the trade and the
usual response in most cases is, “This is entirely dependent
upon how you feel and I see no acute problems to prevent you
from fasting.” And of course in a few cases when patient is
evidently not well, we deliver a decision like, “Baba, you know
you are not well and who has brought this ailment? He knows all
and undeniably He is the most benevolent and merciful.” This
love for Ramazan of our elders is remarkable and worth
emulating. Some of us find it difficult to assimilate the true
spirit and aims of Ramazan.
To many, Ramazan is like a ‘boot
camp’ and to that end of ‘spiritual training’ it has been able
to achieve a lot. Otherwise deserted, most mosques are filled
with devoted worshippers in Ramazan. Most Muslims try to pray
more regularly and in congregation. Where as in our local mosque
we hardly have two files in normal days at Fajar, during Ramazan
the numbers swell up by manifold. In any military boot camp
there is emphasis on trivial like hair cut, immaculate ironed
uniform, polished shoes and rigorous adherence to a time table.
All these things are not important in themselves but a special
feeling of ‘being different’ is created and then special
training for higher goals is imparted. Similar practices are
followed in schools and colleges.
“Why do you persecute yourselves
denying food and water for the whole day?” many of our
non-Muslim friends would ask us when we used to work abroad.
Many of our own so called modernists openly question the wisdom
of fasting. For them this ‘hunger strike’ cannot achieve
anything substantial. Most forget that Ramazan is not about
‘hunger strike’ but this is to create an ‘altered feeling’ – of
something being different. And this ‘altered feeling’ is used as
a tool for spiritual elevation where one to strive to attain
higher goals. In Ramazan ‘altered feeling’ is created to achieve
higher virtues like patience and humility. Most importantly, one
has to be extra ordinary cautious in using the mind and tongue;
and to abstain from gossip, false accusation and evil planning.
This, also, urges one to look after fellow human beings,
exchange social visits and intensify humanitarian services.
According to Hadith (saying) of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH),
“Whosoever does not give up telling lies or acting in a false
manner, Allah has no need for his giving up eating or drinking.”
This transformative tool is utilised to develop a closer bond
with the religion by reciting Holy Quran and trying harder to
understand it. Special efforts are made to observe prayers with
utmost concentration and perform them in congregation and to
observe additional prayers like Taraweeh and Nawafil.
Ramazan is to induce ‘Mature
adaptability’ whereas the whole life becomes topsy-turvy –
waking up before dawn, total ban of food and drinks during day
and breaking of fast later in evening. All otherwise ‘Halal’
things are banned during Ramazan. With a different clock to
follow and newer restrictions to adhere to, it becomes
relatively easier to include ‘newer’ things in life. This is
time to induct higher morals as an integral part of mature
adaptability. Allah says in the Quran, in Surah Al-Baqarah
(2-183): 'O you who believe, Fasting is prescribed on you as it
was prescribed to those before you so that you may become
self-restrained.” The most significant aspect of fasting is the
development of God consciousness (Taqwa) in the heart and the
soul of a fasting Muslim. Riding on the tide of new timetable
and routine, adoption of virtues like speaking the truth,
abhorring lies and helping the fellow humans becomes easier and
practical. There is a constant reminder of ‘things’ being
different and this calls for checking responses to all actions.
This is time to inculcate more patience, tolerance and practise
politeness. All these efforts should gear up towards a more
pious life with ‘internal’ improvement resulting in a better
human being – more useful and productive to the society.
During the course of one month,
the person develops a wise sense of adaptability of virtues.
With this constructive adaptability the acquired virtues becomes
an integral part of personality. An added benefit is time
management which is so critical in Ramazan sticking to a very
tight schedule of prayers and Sehr and Iftar. The important
missing link, so far, has been to inculcate the same virtues in
the life beyond Ramazan!
Ramazan is about reflection and
more importantly recharging the batteries of faith and
conviction which should eventually translate into action. The
aim of Ramazan should be to feel energetic, rejuvenated,
cleansed and ready to take on the world. After eleven months
being spent following mundane routine and working for worldly
prizes – Ramazan offers a unique opportunity of intense self
training in a changed environment. Ramazan evokes in man a
creative sense of hope, devotion, patience, unselfishness,
moderation, will power, wise saving, sound budgeting, mature
adaptability, healthy survival, discipline, spirit of social
belonging, unity and brotherhood. In the milieu of altered outer
environment, changes need to be introduced for a better and
enlightened inner environment and spiritual rejuvenation. |